“I am here to do business”

You juggle films, social causes and now even business! You must be a ‘strong’ woman!
Don’t know about strong but I do have aspirations. I do things that inspire me. I always wanted to open a sports school in Himachal (‘only coz I have land there’) since it bothers me to know that we don’t have a single gold medal in our country which boasts a population of billions! I myself have played Basketball, Athletics all my childhood and know that sports are not just a past time.
You’ve been honing your business skills lately!
I didn’t know anything about films until Dil Se happened and today after nine years, here I am! Likewise, I know nothing about business but I have a sincere intent as far as my work ethic is concerned. Also I am working on it. I go to conferences, go first and leave last! Everybody looks at me and smiles but my logic is if other people have past experiences in business, so what, I’ll make my own experiences.
As a woman, you’ve always had an opinion on everything!
It’s my upbringing. I was brought up by my father who always said, “If you have a brain, use it!” I have always had an opinion and will have in future as well. I strongly believe in Lord Krishna’s saying ‘Doing wrong is a sin but letting someone do wrong is a greater sin’! I am not the type who can sit in the corner and watch things going wrong. I follow my heart.
You are fearlessly frank in real life but people expect you to be bubby all the time! Hassle?
If I am quiet and doing my things people think that I am arrogant! I have stopped caring about what people think of me as you cannot please the entire world! I do love talking but I am a normal person. There are days when my face says ‘stay away’! At times I do get faltered and look up and say ‘God help’!
Does your friendship with your male co-stars bring in any insecurity in your personal relationship?
Absolutely not! I love my co-stars but my lines are clearly drawn. The biggest Casanovas are my friends but I’d rather be the girl you cannot have than the girl you can have. If a man comes on to me I’ll slap him and call him a rapist! As a woman, it’s your prerogative as to how you want to be treated. At these Society parties some women hang around with someone else’s husbands! Why can’t women have a little substance to themselves? Why cant women support each other?
Is that the reason why men find you intimidating?
I believe in huge amount of personal freedom. If anybody tells me to do this and that, I’ll ask them to mind their own business as I have my strong boundaries of right and wrong. Having said that I am not a bra-burning feminist either! I don’t think strong men feel intimidated by me.
One message you’d like to give this woman’s day...
My parents supported me and see where I am today. Female foeticide has to stop. If given a chance, women can succeed in any field also I want to salute all the courageous women of the world. I’ve met a woman who fought with a leopard to save her child! Women should stand for what his right in order to progress.
Renuka Vyavahare, Indiatimes Movies
1 Comments:
nice interview renuka,
preity has always been inspiring!isnt she?
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